"Masaya ka ba sa ganyang setup? At this point, either you accept him as he is, but at the same time, you gotta accept the fact na he wont ever meet your needs for reassurance/attention/closeness (walang mali jan, dont listen to people na nag iinvalidate sayo, iba iba tayo ng needs at attachment system, if they can be cool abt it let them be. Pero thats who u are eh)